When their friends were a source of support, people were happier. None of this is particularly surprising, says Chopik. After all, unlike our family, we can choose our friends. “A few studies ...

In today's Asking Eric column, R. Eric Thomas responds to a reader who is disheartened at how some people treat ill friends or family.

If you can't afford to lose this money, you're taking a chance lending it out ... make recommendations as to interest rates," Simasko says. "If you're preparing to loan money to a friend or family ...